Take a risk.

I hate infidelity. If you're not happy with the person you are with, you should not be with that person !!!

I can understand the idea of marriage becoming stale and couples growing apart and so forth, but it is perfectly obvious to me that the only way of gaining any possible chance of overcoming problems is to address them with your partner. Your partner should be the closest person to you and the one person you can be wholly honest with.

Yes, there are the bonds of marriage that essentially create the risk and hence excitement factor of cheating, but surely one can confront their partner and express whatever needs are not being fulfilled.

Perhaps you need to experience true love before you can indulge this kind of an opinion. Perhaps you need to experience a stale relationship before you can indulge a thirst for infidelity.

If your relationship is stale, you need to address this problem with your partner. If the problem cannot be resolved, you should seek happiness elsewhere. This opinion comes from personal experience, where I (without cheating) risked being alone to find true happiness. I found it. I am happy.